If I might, kudos to you for taking this stand. I have relished in your determination at standing for your marriage because it helps bring strength and hope for others. I think you can stand but require;
I will if this...
You have been delivered from your MLC and from what I gather there were some requirements set upon your life.
I say this from a functioning alcoholics viewpoint as I am one myself. It has cost me much in my life and the only time i've changed is by losing.
This stand from you now is essential, which you seem to realize, for the sake of everyone. (speaking from experience)
If i'm wrong set me straight but I think you may have been the martyr in some of your M stand out of guilt for your past MLC.
Hang in there and my prayers are with you!
Some paths seem to take us away from our destination before it's finally reached.
cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
