FLTC: from Iraq

[COG]

FLTC,

I think the main thing to grasp here is that fear is going to lead you astray.

Fear of D, fear of confrontation with W, fear, fear, fear.

I know the anxiety you are feeling, been there and done that. The thought of D made me want to vomit, or drive my car off a cliff. But what finally gave me peace, was in knowing that I did everything that I could to save my M, and that's all that I could do. I accepted the fact that the kids would survive, I would survive, life would go on.

There is a bright side. Being single, coming and going at will, chasing women, etc. There are benefits to D. I think that the sooner you can accept your sitch for exactly what it is, the sooner you will grow, prosper, and move forward. That change in you might actually make a change in your M, it did in mine.

When I transitioned to acceptance, and stopped bending over backwards for my W, things began to change.

Trust in God to be with you all the way.

God Bless,

COG