If you try to talk to someone not interested in talking, just move on. And, oh yeah, smile! Early and often.
Nomo
You would be shocked how the smiling thing breaks the ice. Like you have no cares in the world. Oh and buying the gal a drink doesn't hurt once you got her chatting.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.