Hi, some great posts - I have been working flat out for the pastcouple of days, and not had much time to post.
ALso have a 'terminal' head cold. [Sniff].
Ummm, I felt a huge amount of anger towards my h yesterday - don't know if was the cold virus, but all my compassion was swept away, and I just thought 'you absolute Schmuck - how could you do this to us - we are just so much too good for you'. Then I read all those great posts, and while I wouldn't say the floodgates of compassion have opened, I do realise how sick so many of them truly are, to give up so much for so very little.
I would not have given up my marriage and kids for anything . . . we are the ones with staying power, grace and compassion. These are rare qualities.
Hugs to all for what we are going through, and what you have given to me
