That is a problem, but what part of QT does it for her? For some people (I think especially women), the QT is being given the opportunity to talk and be heard. If she calls you up, be very willing to just listen and indicate understanding. If she can feel heard, it might feed that LL some.
Maybe that is it but she rarely calls but every time she does I listen and try to understand the best I can. I just wish there was something that I can do. Should I ask to visit her for the weekend or even just a day.