Of course it's hard...that's okay, too. Detaching doesn't necessarily mean that you don't still have feelings, just that you don't have the insane need to pressure her with them.
Yuck, yes, I was in a wreck. A bad wreck. I was lucky that the baby wasn't with me. And I walked away. I still don't know about the other drive. But, thank you for mentioning it.
Good to hear you're going to the gym. It's such a mood booster. I find it helps me sleep--when I work out regularly, anyway. lol