Thanks, brother. I've got to tell you, when you weren't writing to me for a while, It really threw me. when I see you've written back, it really make me feel that I can go on another day. I sent the email today, based on your suggestions. No expectations. If she filed now, she would be monetarily screwed with my D16 at school in Utah. My father in law has told me the same thing before. I've done that at times and it just makes her more ballistic. She is an angry, angry woman.
D16 is now buying the whole "think of the positives" of D. I haven't been this spun up in ages, since maybe last March. Why does the thought of a divorce juse evicerate me?