CVA - thin PJ's & Massages

[Nomopo]

Hey Buddy!

How'd the flirting go last night? Any good banter?

I truly think she can "just" now see me detaching and not worrying / caring about her every move despite the fact that we are together as a family a lot

Yep, and this is GOOD. And this is what OT says about my sitch, and she's probably right. Some times you can't rush these things. They just take time, like baking a cake. You have to let things happen. So, wish we could have gotten oursleves to this point sooner, but no use worrying about that. Time to look forward, and let our WASs do whatever it is they will do.

The more I am away from her the more I want to be away from her, does that make any sense?

Uh, yes it does. That is the ESSENCE of detaching, I believe. That's why it is so good for you (and me). It's the whole, I desire to reconcile with my W, but don't need to. It's the diminution of desperation. It's the beginning of your ability to truly see what is and will be best for CVA

Distance is not making the heart grow fonder for me right now at least.

Also good. Your heart does not need to grow fonder. If anything, it needs to be less fond for now (and for a while), and maybe forever (but only time will tell on that one).

Hang in there buddy! You're doing good (believe it or not).

Nomo