So, has anyone had experience with this way of experiencing joy, and does it have a positive or negative effect on DBing? (Please tell me it is ok. Actually, scratch that, I am looking for honesty, and personal experience. I feel like there is a lot of wisdom in the group, here.)
Thanks
This is exactly what DBing is about. You are enjoying life. You are enjoying being yourself. This is what attracts people to you. Someday, if not sooner, this will attract H to you. It probably already does but he isn't ready to let you know.
The irony of MLC is that it takes as long as it takes. So we can either sit around and mope until it is over or we can find ways to enjoy the time. I believe that if we find ways to enjoy the time and grow from this experience that when and if our MLCer does decide to come back we have a better chance of surviving the reconciliation process.
It is so refreshing to see new poster on this BB who is figuring things out so quickly. Keep up the good work. Have faith. Learn patience. You can do this.
ST
At the bar the Judge will not look us over for medals, degrees, or diplomas, but for scars. - Hugh B. Brown
