The crux of the matter is that he is basically telling me that I am good enough, for now-until someone better comes along
Hi. I am new to your thread (hope you don't mind), but this rang sooo true in my head. I feel like second choice, a runner up, a consolation prize that comes along with the kids. And he hasn't even PICKED me yet!!! Its so hard.
I need to read more on your situation but wanted to say hi to you.