All hope is lost/help

[cat03]

You are an adult making your own decisions, all sitches are different, all spouses are different and what works for some wont' work for others. You did what you felt you had to, no need to appologize to anyone. I think we all have a limit and you reached yours, and now you have the truth. Whatever happens next will be for the best, perhaps once he is out and truly sees what it is to be on his own he will see things more clearly.
I was going over "getting back together", a book about separation. I believe that my own separation helped my H see what life out there was without his family, and had he never left he would not have learned a thing.