I know exactly the type of detachment your going thru. I was once ther and I need to go bak to that again. I even told H when he started to pull me back again...I said you know the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder? Well, its not working for me, the more I dont see you the more my feelings seem to be sliping away..

The detachment will be good you'll start to get your self esteem up and start to really enjoy life w/out her...

H cant beleive I am going out tonite bymyself....oh well