Been dark. No contact with XW for over a week. Seems that OM drives over (2 hours) to stay with XW whenever the kids are with me. I'm not spying. We only live a few blocks away from each other and it is hard to miss his pickup when he at her place. This really sucks. I'm doing all I can to detach. I don't know if I'll follow all of about2bdivorced's advice, but most of it looks pretty good.
I'm sure this will be a long haul. It's already been 13 mos since the initial separation. I will wait for her to make contact. Any bets?
