I Im'd H last night just before he was getting off work. I wanted to go to a concert tonite (his nite to visit), but I was not going to ask him to stay w/ them as it sould be too late fo rhim to be at our place). So I told if it would be better he comes by on Friday since he has to come & pick them up then for the weekend.
I was surprised of his answer, before he would jump to it (not to have to come over two the days in row).

I was also surprised he didn't rush me since it was past his time to leave work?

M- would you mind not coming over tomorrow and come over Friday since you will be here anyways?

H- thats up to you. you must have plans.

M- yes

H- a date

M- nope

H- where will you be

M- in xx side of town

H- oh at x place? what time

M- no- its a concert- not your type though-christian

H- are you going alone?

M- yes

H- your lying, why cant you be honest with me? You dont go anywhere alone.

M- I am being honest, if you choose not to believe thats your problem. Since you left I go many places bymyself. But I will try to call around to see if I can get someone to go.

H- so you are going w/ a guy? And he will prolly meet you there.
I know I have no right to ask these quesetions, but I dont understand why you are being vague w/ your answers.

M- It's not my intention to do that. No I am calling to women from church.

H- OK. Can you drop them off by 6 to my work?
M- yes.

H- Make sure they are dressed decently,no trailer trash look.

M- OK. I love you for this!!!! <<<hint, I'v been wanting to say ILY and waiting for the right time>>>>>

H- you love me anyways(?)<<glad he noticed, was wondering>>>

As I was trying to log off he told me to wait a minute & then he kept small talk. I was wondering ..hmm..its 30 minutes past his clock out time & he's not in a hurry to rush home?

Then I say goodnite and he writes- Yeah, let me go and be miserable now. He has said that before meaning he's going home to be miserable w/OW.

I wrote back- Right, thats why you cant leave....This si what I meant when I call her the wife b/c now you cant seem to leave and I am now the outsider.....

H- shut up.... <<I am glad he didnt take offense by it>>
M- besitos (kisses in spanish)<<I think he likes my new sayings>>>
H- yes you too.....

So, lets see how my night goes. I am looking forward to finally GALng its been a while...