Yoyo, Mark, LWB, NCB....thanks for your support.....
No new fireworks to report between my W and I. Still a bunch of the same old stuff. For example my W emailed me yesterday about us possibly meeting with our L's. Then at the end of the email she said that I need to do what is right for our girls because they are ready to move on..... Really.....My D's want to not see their daddy on a daily basis - I don't think so. She still seems to be wrapped up in her world called "Its all about me".
Another example of my W's me behavior occurred last night. Typically D5 has soccer on nights that my W works, so she has not been involved in D5 soccer at all. Well yesterday D5 had a game and would have been the perfect opportunity for my W to go and watch our girls game. Well she chose not to go and decided to go bra shopping instead. I think this hurt and disappointed me more then it did D5....but I think it shows what really is important right now to my W. BTW, her reason for not going is that she did not want to freeze while watching the game. This was said by the same woman that would go to my baseball games while I was in college in the early spring when the temperatures were barely above freezing.
One thing I have been thinking about lately and would love to hear all your thoughts on is this: "Are we(LBS) really 50% to blame in our failed M's?". Now I am not saying that I am perfect and understand that my M was between my W and I. We both have done things to each other over the years that we could have done better or in a more loving way. But is the WAS personality one that is more inclined to waiver and run. Are they addicted to the new in love feeling and does it really matter if we were the perfect partner or not. I still claim 50% in the my M's downfall....but I am starting to wonder if I should really be claiming that much.......Call me an idiot, whack me with a 2x4....just interested in everyone's thoughts about this in general....
