I really don't think so. She has always been the type of person that did for others to make them happy no matter if was what she wanted to do or not. Now, it's just the opposite, she is all about herself. She is not happy unless she is hanging with friends. I know the beautiful, good hearted person is still in their somewhere, I'm just wondering it she will ever surface again. After she turn 40, I noticed some marked changes, and with each passing year, it seems like she is trying to get younger instead with the party lifestyle, the cloths etc. I believe she is depressed, going through MLC, possibly premenapausal, along with the low SD she has had for almost 20 years. I know it don't make for a good recipe for healthy marriage,but I still love her...