A mediator is there to do just that, serve as a bridge between the two of you. If he/she is doing the job well, the mediator will not take sides. In mediation, they are not legally bound to either side, but to facilitate a mutually agreeable agreement.

Keep your cool, NDDT. Be prepared, but don't go in expecting both mediator and W to try to screw you.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.