Nikki, you are still very strong and it is great to see considering we don't spend much time commiserating any more. I am glad you have come to the realizations you have and set the boundaries with H that he acts like a teenager. He will grow up again, but do you have the time? Sure wish I would run into an add like you found, but the way W has been acting lately, I am just going with the flow, which all leads to S, but no rush. (((nikki)))