My S2 says that all the time. Is that a bad thing? Daddy's are fun. It seems only natural they would want one around all the time. Each time they see a coach, an uncle, a neighbor, they go buck wild and climb all over the man figure! When my S2 asks for a New Daddy, I just say, "You have a Daddy. He loves you. You will see him Sunday."
You do not need to offer H any consolation or advice. You are not his TH or mother. Let him deal with his own issues of insecurity or tell him to read DR and say it talks about children!! Trick
Take your own advice and when your H feels sad about what he hears, listen and parrot, but do not problem solve for him. I may sound bitter but how many more reminders do they need that they are ineffectual parents and not as smart as us? geez. Are they kids or men? Sorry. Go have fun and when he has an issue say, "Oh really?"
How funny would it be if your H started DBing to get you back!!!
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
