totally agree with jak on the mlc. Just remember, that although your H is doing all these things and it feels it's all against you, it's not ALL him. I mean, to say, that with depression, or mlc, they are placing the blame on you, and with all the emotional fog they are going thru, they really aren't themselves. Some day sooner or later, your H is gonna wake up and he's going to feel bad, and very likely regret what he did to you.
I know it happened to my dad.
I'm really sorry how far he's been pulled back. He's got a lot of learning to do for himself.
I'm very glad you stood up for yourself in the garage. and it obviously worked for you too.
I know you know that taking care of yourself, pma, galing and all that is what you need to do. But I stress it even more because whether or not it brings your H back, it will build you up, and strengthen you for whatever may happen in the future.
sooo cool about the guys you ran into in front of H!!!! that is such awesome timing. it's good for him to see that he has a great girl slipping thru his fingers that many other men would die to have!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
