Our first mediation appt is Monday morning. I plan to go with an open mind. I want to do alot of listening, and taking notes. I am hoping that things go well....... At the same time I am covering my backside. I am doing alot of legal research right now. I will not roll over at this point and become a doormat.
This is something that she has decided to do. Not what I want, or what my kid wants. But it is going to happen. I do not plan to agree to or sign anything on this first session. I am also reserving the right to walk away if this is looking like I about to get my hat handed to me. I see no reason why I should be paying big money for the next umpteen years because of her decisions. If it comes to it, I am working on a backup plan, and it is "game on"
I am going to pray on this, that she comes to this session and is willing to be reasonable. I guess, between now and Monday, I need to do as much preperation as I can, research legally. And prepare my mindset. Going to have my PMA going, not going to lose my cool. Gonna give myself some time afterward to consider the discussion.
