As of the last contact with my wife (about 2 weeks ago) she said that she had some of the papers ready for me to look at. However, she still hasn't brought them to me.
She's still living at her new home with her new dog. No new man in her life as far as I can tell. She's staying busy working a second job.
When we've talked or seen each other it's always been friendly. I don't think that either of us wants to "hurt" the other.
I really still don't know what to make of things. She says she wants a D, but then there's no action.
As for me, I'm still going to C --- mainly just the "group" sessions. I've really learned a lot and it's been very helpful. I feel good and have my "own life" now. I still miss my wife and believe that D isn't the answer. However, if she were to show up tomorrow and want to come back ... it would be hard. Hard to trust her not leave again. I would think that some serious joint C and building the relationship back up before she moved back in full time would be the route to go. But then, I don't think she's about to return, so it's just dreaming...
Any suggestions? Should I just keep waiting? Push her to come back? Push her to get the rest of her stuff out of the house?
