neph, could it have been a family member he was with? or a friend? probably was with someone if he was acting that weird, but try not to guess too much...remember what I said about filling in the pieces with info that you don't really know.
I have to say, I hate it when H sounds weird, too. I do know what you mean. when he was at the lake I knew OW had to have gone with him, even though he denied it at first. he sounded like a total dick on the phone, really really weird, and I just knew. so maybe you are right (I found out later I was), but again, doesn't change anything. just hurts like hell.
they are so freaking hard to figure out...which is why I guess we keep hearing that we need to take the focus off of them and what they are doing, and put it onto ourselves.
stay strong!
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