Regarding your anniversary. Send her a note, just tell her you are thinking about her, and hoping she's doing okay.
Regarding the gift for your D. First, you don't buy diamonds for a recovering out of control teenager. Think of something meaningful, something she can use, ie, a digital camera, an ipod, something along those lines.
Your W has definately opened the door for your cooperation. Absolutely go in together with her on something. First ask her if she had anything in mind. Then depending on her response, you can share your ideas.
Just treat her like you would any other friendly ally.
Love,
COG
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