Are we DBing or what?

[Lissie]

Dahling( I hear you saying that in a wonderful accent to me)

Well really BND,, does it when she calls me , but she is doing your voice.

I am dbing, and I will always DB it has saved my life. And I leave the board so much I can't even count (I'm a dork)


My Dbing was first to get that puffy back. My Dbing now is for me and to be a better parent, nurse, friend, and co-parent.

I do not stand for my marriage, b/c after hard prayer, and work, and realization, I was not able to be the best me.
Puffy is different than many of the others here. He is not well, and it is safer for me to move on.

I applaud the standers, and I pray for the reconciliation of many marriages.

I do see many hopeful situations, I know how hard it is to stand.

But I feel so many of you can do it.

Patience is hard to learn, I still get in my hyper, I want it now moods, but for the most part I remember , to Just let it go.

I do have one thing to say to the newbies that Are Dbing, and standing.

Try to make a decision early on, to accept this as a blessing.

Oh how hard it is. I know , I know exactly.

But your spouse has been called away from you for a reason.

Embrace that reason. Thank God for his way of doing things.

Even tho is it not YOUR way. Even tho it is the hardest thing that has ever happened to you.

Embrace this time, b/c it may only come once.

You are given a chance to find yourself. To rescue yourself, You are given another chance at the game of life.

I think about it and I tear up, b/c I would never want to be that old Lis.

Step your prayers up a notch
or your meditation whatever.


Sleep, eat well, drink plenty of water, and exercise.

Take care of you.

Write in a journal and give thanks for what you DO have.

At first all I could write was
Thank you God for my kids, I could not see anything else good.

And now the page is full sometimes takes another page.

And in the midst of all this crap, I lost my grandmother that was my best friend. I lost another wonderful friend in my life, and just recently I had to give away my dog, b/c she is very sick.

The punches keep on coming, and I will keep on taking them b/c God is not cruel.

So yes, this place is for support, and Help.

This place is to DB in a million ways.

And I agree Angelica , no one should take away people's hope or dreams or prayers.

Be proud of all your actions, and you will do fine.


Lissett