I'm so glad you could get it all out !!! I know that helps a lot. Sometimes just "writing" it out is even better than actually talking to someone about everything.

I really hope he'll go to MC.

And I agree w/ Azhira -- this is all about him and his dissatisfaction w/ himself and he's taking it out on you. Obviously, we know that's not fair, but that's the bottom line. You need to stay focused on keeping yourself sane & remembering that you are the better person here!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10