OK,

Now I am upset. W couldn't hardly wait until I was out of the house until she was checking her 'secret' email account. I found out as soon as I had returned (from picking up our son) and told her I was dissapointed in her - that's all and there has been little conversation since then.

Her reaction was 'you can't trust me'. Well there is the evidence so how can I trust you.

Going to bed now and will not raise it with her unless she makes the first move. The ball is firmly in her court now - I desperately want to make this marriage work and will continue to pursue that goal.

I will raise this during the counselling session tomorrow and I bet you I get a similar reaction. It will be interesting to see how the counsellor sees it.


Paul

Married 16
Know 21
Kids m8, f5

Bomb: 4/07
Despair to Hope: 4/07 - ongoing

Never, ever give up

Current Sitch