Hi, I had to post this ... some "good" news. To make a long story really short, my H has a major presentation to make to clients tonight. He had short notice and last night, he was still working on printing out 25 copies of an 8 page book (and every page had to be laminated and bound). I volunteered to help as I experience in that area. He was so grateful. (I ended up sending him to bed around 10 pm because he was done in. I stayed up until midnight finishing stuff by myself.)
But all through out the night (before he went to bed), OW kept calling. He warned me she had been drinking and he knew she was going to call (he had already talked to her twice before I got home). She does this on a pretty regular basis, gets drunks, calls him and b*tches, gripes, complains. She gets means when she drinks so I imagine she does everything that DB tells us not to do.
A couple times he was literally yelling at the top of his lungs at her. He was never done this with me! At one point he was so frustrated he told me what the conversation had been about. She was going on about her fingernails. She had not had time to put polish on them. She wanted to know if my nails were nice.
My first thought was "HUH?" Then I thought, OMG she is so jealous of me. I didn't show it, I acted 'as if' (but slightly sympathetic to his stress). But inside I was, am still am, wearing the grin of a cheshire cat. I am not a spiteful person, but to know I am causing her misery makes me happy. After all, look at all the misery she has caused me.
So score a few DB points for me -- and subtract quite a few for her. I know this isn't about "winning" but it sure made me feel good.
