GD - on the holidays, my thought is if your W invited you and you thought she wanted you to go, ok. But just in-laws, I'd pass.

This has been my approach so far, even if in-laws invite me to something and W says its ok. I am trying to figure out what she wants. I guess I will have to run this drill again soon myself as W said in our JC session Tuesday of this week that she assumes we will all (meaning me, her and our kids) be spending the holidays together (Turkey Day and Christmas - not sure about New Year's or Chanukah).

Nomo \:\)

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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