Head out get some beers and do some flirting! Its great for the ego and the PMA and is pretty safe. Def not dating. I am sure you will find out what your threshold is pretty quickly as to whether or not you feel comfortable enough to actually take that next step. If you do, then give it a try. One date is not going to ruin what you have done so far. Who knows, may give you clarity on what your "next steps" are going to be. Just my nickels worth.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
