Originally Posted By: husband
Originally Posted By: andyv
I often wonder what goes through their heads? How could she put OM before her own daughter?

It's got me buggered................


Andy,
Figure this one out and ya can write a book and never work agian

husband.


I think it has to do with the self-delusion.

I believe my W actually thinks her actions will have no negative impact on our children's lives. She has actually bought into the MIL's cynical view that divorce is a "blessing" and that kids are so much more "resilient" than people realize -- and often come out stronger. Barf!

My reaction: "How worldly of you."


<Fog-Horn Leghorn impression> "That's not a complement there, son!" </impression>


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.