It has never occurred to H that there may be a problem with anything. Or if it has occurred to him then he hasn't told me. He would not consider himself to have any form of ED although he mentions that "sex has never been easy for me" and things of that nature. He has not had his testosterone level checked to my knowledge. I doubt that he would be too happy if I brought up the medical when we haven't been doing nor even talking about sex since last February and very little in the months before that. I feel a little confused about where to strart these discussions which is why I may need to involve a professional ST to help me say what needs to be said without doing a bunch of damage. KWIM? I mean maybe I need to just start the convo with - "Hey H do you realize that we haven't ML since last February and that you hardly ever touch me? Maybe you should see the doctor." (tongue in cheek but you can see the issue).
