The people who bother me are those who having decided not to go on standing, then try and tell the rest of us that what we are doing is ineffectual and pointless. Thank you, but the rest of the world is already saying that.
I am so glad you posted that. I am glad you are not only diplomatic but ballsy too!!
Yes you are right, this is a place to DB your arse off and to encourage others.
It is not about false hope, it is more about having an abundance of patience.
For some 6 months seems like an eternity, yet for others 2 years is just part of the process.
Yes I too had many many days when I just wanted to be done with standing, because it was so damn hard, but I am glad I stood.
I would never do this again because once was enough, but the end results are wonderful and rewarding.
Not only was my Marriage restored, but it is better then it was before.
I never would have made changes in my life, character flaws that needed major work would never have happened had I not gone through this fire.
For those that choose to Divorce, or date others, or just give up, I understand, but don't discourage those of us who are taking another path.
Being still is wonderful advice, if not the best advice.
The 48 hour rule is also another good rule of thumb.
Duct tape for whatever ails you!!!
(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
