I am still here too! I agree that my M is not fixed...it is a work in progress! What I have realized is that without the support I rec'd from this board and the books I read I would be divorced by now. MLC sucks...and it takes a breed (like all of us!) to realize we can stand for our marriage no matter what. I stay here and not in piecing because I understand all of you and you all understand me. It is comfort and security! Some on this board have stood by me since day one and rejoiced with me when H wanted to try....and cried with me through all the BS I was put through. We are all smart and know what our boundaries are. I support everyone here in whatever they do...go through with D, stand for M, work on R...whatever it may be it needs to be what is best for us! This is a very personal thing and to have people say "move on...get out"... is hurtful! angelica, your post is great! Thank you for saying something that I have been thinking!!
