I think she very well could say that because in her opinion ( I am not saying that she is all correct, remember she has been abducted by aliens) she feels that all the faults in the marriage are CVA's fault. CVA is in the doghouse. She has told CVA she is not sure if she wants to be married to him anymore and CVA then says that he wants to do everything possible to save his marriage and show her how much he loves her - and then he doesn't acknowledge the anniversary. Not saying it is right, but it definately can happen b/c I have seen it happen. Chicks are mean!