Mixed signals - catfan's continual saga part???

[Dom R]

Hey there catfan :-)

What's strange is if I do it a little but not over the top she seems to respond, especially when I am very happy and positive.

not strange at all... I think you're blindly teetering back and forth over where she draws the line between "friend", and "needy person"

I told her that all during that time I was desperately trying to speak hers and it truly hurts I was failing at it. I told her all I would like to do right now is speak hers. Her response, "that would be nice."

Oooo... that seems a bit "over the line" to me (grovelling, AND R talk), but seems like she tolerated it. lucky you

The big thing would be if she chooses to accurately tell you what her love languages are.
I'd say, hold tight, and wait-and-see