step aside, let him clean up his own mess. He can't keep off from going to work forever, he will have to make a decision soon. The important thing is that he is distancing himself from the ow. If this goes on for the rest of the week you could have a talk with him on the weekend, im sure he doesnt' want to loose his job.
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I feel horrible for what H is going through and am frustrated that he isn't taking the necessary steps to rectify the situation.
There are consecuences to our actions, he's living his. I had to see my H suffer and despair when he saw what the A did to him, us, his job. I learned that I didn't always had to make him feel good or console him at my expence, saying "that's ok" when it really wans't ok with me.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
