Dating before your divorce is final is dangerous territory. My now H and I started dating 3 or 4 months before I was legally divorced and I can look back and see how it affected our relationship. Also, my religious beliefs are that I am still married in God's eyes until it's legal. That's my biggest regret. I believe b/c H and I didn't start off on the right foot that our marriage wasn't "blessed". But, that's me. It's so easy to take the feelings you're having for your W and transfer them to someone else, esp b/c you are so hurt and lonely. I think if H and I would have waited to date until after my D was final our relationship would have been much more stable.
Okay, I'm rambling..sorry. It's so hard not to want some companionship, affection, etc. I don't know how I would handle being asked out right now, even though I've been there before and feel strongly against it. The need to have someone physically touch me (and not in a sexual way) is so strong right now, it might over ride my rational thinking.
