Well, I continue to have great fun with my new giant boyfriend. Today he called me "Cutie-Pie" and actually picked me up and threatened to overhead press me up to the ceiling. Because he's retired and I'm self-employed we just hung out like teenagers playing hooky all day in his giant rec room and watched videos, ate pizza and fooled around.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I think what I'm really saying is that I simply want to be able to openly and freely communicate about sex and interact sexually with someone in a very relaxed and confident manner. I want to be fluidly intimate in terms of sexuality
That's what I thought you meant. Yes, this would be great, in the way I used to think when reading the Sears Christmas Toy catalog and envisioning owning one of everything. It's like saying you want the male version of you, but wouldn't that tend to flame out? There wouldn't be any intrigue.
First let me say that your description of their home and how it functions reminds me A LOT of H's home. Remember, he was raising several teenage boys/young adults at the time. Our home still has vestiges of this like my H's waterbed that he just loooooooves and will never get rid of. There is nothing that beckons the cow more than a couple of "helpless" males living their version of the "good life" especially when they are so pleased by the tiniest gestures - baking some cookies, wiping a counter, helping choose something for the house. All of these things hooked me in like I cannot tell you. In many ways that has been a good thing. My children from my previous M have certainly benefitted from my H and I meeting and marrying. Your desciption just brought a lot back.
Also, clearly it takes a very secure person to allow another to "rummage through" their sexuality but I think it is a great description. I had always hoped for something like that as well. So, it sounds like you are comfortable with being exclusive in this relationship for a while???????????? Do you think it is soon for that?
So, it sounds like you are comfortable with being exclusive in this relationship for a while???????????? Do you think it is soon for that?
I think I'm sort of mesmerized in this relationship at the moment. I can't figure out if I'm all cozy and safe in Grandma's cottage or if Grandma is really a wolf 'bout ready to eat me up but I just gotta hang around to see how the story ends.
GP is really an interesting character. He said he wanted me to spend the night at his house so I asked him how he was going to make arrangements for his son. He replied "Even a blind mule will follow a carrot."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I am going to chip in and be mother hen #3. I know you are intrigued and having fun Mojo but I am not liking the sound of GP for you AT ALL. Truly my antennae are twitching like crazy.
I'm not sure that I like GP referring to his son as a blind mule (too young to know), offering him a carrot (bribe... something else that is fun, without knowing the true reason).
Mo... beware of your cow, honey. Overtly controlling men are the same as hyper passive aggressive ones.
