well, I can honestly say that just because my wife came back home and wants to be married, does not mean I am successful, this will always be a work in progress, I never want to lose sight of that.
I never want to be complacent in my marriage.
As for leaving, I leave alot, so far I have come back, maybe one day I won't. (shrug)
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK