ha ha ha - you MUST be kidding!

[*KS*Chick*]

You know....a few nights ago my D was asking me if I'd ever take him back. I told her we weren't having that discussion right now but she pressed on. Told me Daddy said he'd probably take you back (what a saint he is!), that I was "beautiful like spring" and had "pretty eyes"....

Now - WHY would he drag her into that kind of BS? I really don't know. The next day she said I told OM to shut up. Question - WHY is he continuing to talk to her about him - and by name? BLECH!!!!!

So I sent a text - to the point. Please don't discuss our past or who I've slept with with our daughter.

That started a barrage of texts. The first one I got said "You looked really pretty last night. I should have told you that more when we were together" (which was obviously before he read mine LOL

Then a few more, telling me to get my facts right, that he doesn't bring it up with her, she does and he tries to shut her down. (Funny but she rarely brings it up with me and my seven year old has an honest streak.....which he seems to be lacking......so who would I believe?)

Later he told me he doesn't blame me and om for everything, that if he'd been better, he could still have me, blah blah and he does miss us but he's moving forward......and then - "I'd like to do coffee sometime"....

So many replies floating around that I could have used - such as "well I don't have the money to go to coffee..." or "why don't you take MAGGIE to coffee?" or "I'm sorry, I've lost so much respect for you, I can't be in public with you."

But I chose "maybe one day we could do that. I'm not ready to be social with you yet - I'm still very angry"

Of course I'm assuming that he assumes I'm angry because of Maggie but honestly - I'm angry with him for lying for so long and for the back seat he's taken in his daughter's life......that he's basically just written her off to four days a month. I have zero respect for him, and quite honestly I don't miss US at all. He made me feel like sh*t for too long and I would be absolutely insane to allow him to make me feel that way again. HELL to the NO!