A lot of people find themselves i think going dark to protect themselves from hurt. It also serves as a wake up call to the WAS by doing it in most cases. But don't tell him that. Let him see someone who appears confident and who can live with out him.
Kind of like you are making life decisions and need time to yourself to do this, and he might just get scared that you will make a decision not to keep him in your life.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
