That's good enough for now. Many on here find their spouse angry and vindictive. She's not being that. You can't get impatient. You need to start small, and her not hating your guts is good enough for now. Now get happy being without her. It can't be that hard to get used to being without her since you hardly see her anyway. So do some fun stuff for you. You might also try a book called, the five love languages (?) by Gary Chapman. You might find that this being apart doesn't feed her love language and so she fell out of love. Try to figure out what it is and maybe there are ways to feed into that language from afar (in a very subtle way because she's not going to fall for ploys to win her back...it's just a thought).
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It is a plus that she doesn't hate me and that is still going on our trip we planned. I try to do things that make me happy or forget about her for a little while but it isnt working. Even though we werent together every night it still is very hard. I have read the 5 love languages and I have figured out what hers are. But I can not spend qualtity time with her since she doesn't want to see me plus she is 4.5 hrs away.
