What is reasonable and what is not?

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I have pulled away from him the past 2 days. He has called and text'd often but it really bugs me that we have these separate lives. I didn't even see him yesterday. He stayed at home and I had my kids.

I find myself going dark on him out of fear and protection. It's almost my way of keeping somewhat safe. But the only thing is he thinks I am angry with him or he has done something wrong. He really hasn't. It's just me not trusting him to be sincere.

Do I tell him I am petrified, scared and so fearful? He knows I don't trust him fully yet. But do I tell him when he asks me what is wrong that its just fear?