Bruce - I agree about the pain. I have grown through facing and acknowledging this. It is at the root of all great systems of religion - but it is hard. It requires grace.

Apart from what I can only describe as a terminal head cold [I don't normally get colds, and I in denial about this] I am having a good day. Debating whether to go to a private view of an art exhbition tonight or stay at thome and keep my germs to myself . .

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