Divorce just about final ~ Lovingme

[LisaLost]

(((christy))))

just stopping by to say hello!!!

Lisa

[Fender]

Ok, where is Christy?

[lovingme]

Sorry I haven't checked in for some time. Got a little message from Dear Althea so I thought I should pop in. Nothing came of the letter to h other then me opening myself up and him ignoring it. Found myself in a little slump after that but I have pulled back out of it.

H and I talk as little as possible. The divorce was final 9/12. I handled it pretty well. Didn't have a break down. I was a little sad that such a big part of my life is officially over even though it has been over for the last two years.

I went out on a date last Sunday evening. Just dinner and walk at the park. We went to dinner again last night too. He is a nice guy. Very quiet and so am I at first so that makes it kind of tough.

Bj ~ I don't have your email address anymore. My computer died and with it I lost all my email addresses. Can you send it to me again please?!

The boys and I are going to Disney Dec 19th through the 24th and we are so excited about it. I have already paid for the whole trip besides food and spending money while we are there. That is a relief. I never thought we would go but here I am taking the boys on their first airplane ride, their first trip to Florida, and a first trip to Disney all on our own without h. Sucks to be him lol.

Gonna go check in on some threads and will try to stop in more often.

Much love to all of you! Oh and you can see make over pictures on my myspace page :-)

[princess_nic]

(((Christy)))

I'm sorry to hear about the divorce, but at the same time, it must be relief; I know I'm looking forward to having it all done.

I am seldom on myspace, but will check you out for sure, you babe you!

Glad to hear you're dating, btw. It must be nice to feel attractive to men again.

Love,
Nicola

[lovingme]

Thanks Nic ~ I guess you could call it dating lol. I don't know. I really don't think being single is all that bad. Yeah I did go to dinner with him twice now but I don't think I want a relationship. A girl at my dentist office wants to set me up on a blind date with a guy that works with her boyfriend. Kind of crazy and I am not to sure about it.

Ohhh Desperate Housewives is back on gotta go ;-)

[I_Still_Love_Him]

(((Christy)))

The divorce was final 9/12. I handled it pretty well. Didn't have a break down. I was a little sad that such a big part of my life is officially over even though it has been over for the last two years.

Sorry to hear about the D. I had the same feelings when I knew it was officially over. After all the pain and hurt we have gone through for the last 2 years, in some ways, knowing that it is legally over, it gives us the freedom to choose how we want to live the rest of our life.

Sounds like you had a nice date even if it doesn't mount up to a serious R. It will make you feel good and you obviously must know that you are looking and most likely feeling attractive again.

That is good news about the Disney trip. I'm sure you and the boys will have a great time. Your H's lose, absolutely.

You are sounding so much more confident. I'm proud of you and how far you have come. You will find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Hugs,
ISLH

[lovingme]

Thank you ~ Funny thing is h and I are getting along again now. This guy emailed me that he had seen me around before and was basically hitting on me. I asked h if he knew him and turns out he does. H was telling me that this guy is a bad guy and he said "you can do whatever you want this isn't h trying to be overprotective, well maybe a little I am". I thought that was nice.

H was mad too that this guy was contacting me when they are friends and he knows I am h's ex wife. I am not going to go out with him but it did help break the ice for me and h who haven't been getting along the greatest lately.

[Fender]

Christy I am just popping in to see how you are doing? Glad you and the XH are talking. Until you sons are adults you and XH will need to communicate.

Let me say one thing and please don't take it the wrong way. It has to do with your comment about XH being overprotective and how it is nice. You do not need him to validate you. You are a young and beautiful woman. What I am saying is you still seem to be hanging on to how he feels or doesn't feel about you? If I am wrong tell me and I will apologize.

I hope you and the boys are doing well? I'll bet you will get some cold weather in the near future. It is very nice here for a change, around the mid 80's instead of high 90's. I love this time of year, makes for good motorcycling weather.

[lovingme]

Fender ~ You are right. I am working on that.

Things are good here. I am kind of dating someone. He is really nice. I am taking it VERY slow. Slower then he wants I imagine. If he could see me everyday he would but I keep it to once or a twice a week. Mainly because I am busy. We have baseball and soccer going on so that takes 4-5 days a week.

Not much else new. H and I are getting along ok. He was kind of crappy in a phone conversation with me yesterday. He text me afterwards that he wasn't trying to be crappy with me he is just mad at the ins company. Fine whatever.

BJ ~ I need your email!!!

[Fender]

Glad to hear you are doing well and staying busy. You are wise to take that new relationship slowly however don't be afraid to stick your toe in the water. It is time to move on.