LiL no good natural stiffies for 17 years? I thought some of your internet dates could get it up.
Lou, interesting that you would assume I had sex with my internet dates! Why would you assume that? Goodness!
Most of them I only met once. There was one guy I corresponded with long enough and knew well enough to go to bed with, but he lived out of town and was still in love with both his ex-wives. He turned out to have MS-- my infallible instinct at work again. He turned into a pretty good friend, but that friendship faded after I met my bf.
Re penetration: I agree that that is the moment of greatest intimacy. I have a stronger O with no penetration, probably just because there is more room for contractions, but that moment when "it goes in" is indescribibly delicious.