Hi Limbo - I hope you had a great thanksgiving! There are so many good things about my situation. I feel like this is the last little bit of ugliness that needs to be dealt with - and it isn't that little of a thing, unfortunately. I wish it was just as easy as changing a cell phone number. My H, unfortunately, takes such a long time to move in any one direction that I could be waiting on him for a whole other year. I just don't have it in me. I don't. I'm exhausted. (and whiney (can you tell)
But, I hear what you are saying in regard to him setting the pace. I'm doer though, not a thinker. H is a thinker. I'm looking for suggestions in how to LET him set the pace. suggestions?
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
