I to found the way you handled yourself through this very encouraging.
I am in piecing but as of late my feelings regaurding H and his MLC issues are all over the place. H has told me, after i thought we were doing soooo well that he still feels disconnected and that he's having a hard time reconnecting. I know i need to distance my self but am having a hard time as every time i try my H gets more clingy. He needs to work on his issues. It is hard because we are still living together but, i need to figure out what to do. to make h wonder if he may loose me, while im'e getting a life. But it is hard because he keep trying to reel me in by wanting to do things together all of the free time he has.Im'e thiking that this is his way of trying to reconnect.
I guess the only way to figure out what im'e trying to say is to ask you to please read my threads and give me any suggestions?
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
