Lets try thing again!!!!

[limbo]

We did dialogue last night, which led to a talk, basically we were talking about traits that cause conflict.
H said its when I say nothing is wrong when it is, and for me its when I tell him how I feel, which he takes as a personal attack and clams up and it just sits there.
I said that I say nothing is wrong because I know what will happen if I tell him, so we are in this vicious circle.
We can't do either of these things anymore, because this is what has led us to this place, he said he understand, but worries he isn't strong enough to do this, I understand how this is hard for him and told him that, but said that I believed that if we could fix this, then we just could make this work because we will end up where we were before.
So in some ways it has made me think he is working up to being with her again, although he says he isn't with her now, but I am sure this will be the reason.